So, word on the street (at least in our house) is that H and M are finally going to watch “the puberty” video in school today. They are totally stressed out about it. I can’t WAIT to pick them up from school, as the post-worthy quotes will be flying from both of their mouths with rapid speed, I am sure.
I, of course, have talked with them about “stuff”. Probably not as much “stuff” as I should have at this point and probably not as accurately as I should (I just don’t like to say some of those words…) but we have talked about it. We tend to have these talks when G is out or away. He'd be WAY too nervous to be around. But we still have a long way to go. I’ll get to it. I promise. Just give me some time.
It’s actually a miracle that I have two children. My mom NEVER talked to me about “stuff”. Ever. EVER. (Hmmm…I wonder where I get it from?!) I find that hysterical. All's well that ends well, I guess.
Maybe she and I will have to have “the talk” this weekend. At least this time, we can both drink wine. I’m sure that’ll make it much easier for both of us.
I suspect you'll handle this the way you handle all the important beats in their lives: with love and tenderness.
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Don't let them smell the fear.
And humor. Can't forget the humor. I find myself quite hysterical. Thanks for the tips on fear. I'll have to remember that.
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